Dear Papa Gravely,

Mommy told me today that you passed away.

I don't understand what that means at my age, and I know Mommy really wishes that I did.

I came to see you several times, even though I won't remember them when I'm grown. Mommy and Daddy did take lots of pictures and videos of my visits with you, though, and I am sure I'll see them over the years over and over. I also know that Mommy will tell me stories about you so that it will be as if I knew you longer than the 19 months that I truly did.

I am honored to carry on your namesake (Preston), and I will grow up to make you proud.

Your great-grandson,
Gardner Preston Wilson


















Gardner and Papa Gravely, Nov. 2005

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