Gardner's new trick: Climbing onto chairs, and then proceeding to climb up onto tables and desks. It's something we won't tolerate (a newly enacted family rule), namely because it's disrespectful, and we don't want him doing it at our house much less the house of someone else.

SO, we've started using the loud voice "no's" and promptly assisting him back into a sitting position. After two warnings, he goes on the floor and the chair (i.e., stool) is removed. Yes, this does cause tears to be shed, but we are remaining hopeful that our diligence will pay off and he will get the picture. 17-months is a tough age; not quite old enough for time outs, and we are reserving spankings for those things which are purely dangerous and threats to harm. This limbo period is a trying one, but this is where a unified front is called into action more than ever before.

I am grateful for parents who disciplined me diligently, too, because I know that my life would not be what it is today if they had let me do whatever I wished. Yes, it hurts my heart to see Gardner upset when he can't use this new-found skill of climbing in order to have the most fun of his life. Yet I understand that the big picture is what I need to look at; one day these boundaries will pay off, and I pray daily that our efforts will allow him to develop into a Godly, obedient, and mature man. I have certainty of that.

We're also looking for more ways to let him expand his artistic horizons, as well. He has taken a big interest in the paint program on the computer; he's even mastering use of the mouse! He loves to color with crayons, and of course, for those brave days, we have finger paints available. I have people on the lookout for more craft project ideas for his age. I am having as much fun as he is!!